To Be or Not
I’m in Mississauga, Canada and yesterday, I had an eye opening cab ride. I had just finished an amazing day with some amazing people. Every year, the people of Aramark host an event for the folks who are the leadership at long term care facilities and retirement communities.
These are the folks who care for the world’s greatest but least appreciated treasure; our elders. Our elders hold the key to perspective and without their past, we cannot see the future.
People who care for the wellbeing of elders have a special place in my heart because I grew up in a nursing home. Okay, not really, but my mother worked in one and so I got to go there quite a bit. This is hard and often thankless work but the folks at Aramark “put on the dog” for them, as my mother would have said about any event that was really high class.
I could go on and on about the day as I met folks who made my heart melt with joy, pride and love but I have an early pick-up for an early flight so I need to get right to it.
On my way back to the hotel, I rode with a cab driver I could barely understand. It wasn’t his accent; it was mine, as I was the foreigner. He asked me what event had been held and I told him about the folks who cared for the world’s most forgotten treasure; our elders.
He turned around, looked at me and smiled and then he said something that left me speechless for the remainder of the day.
“This is why we are called human beings, because we are to care for one another.”
Then he turned back around and drove me to my destination and I thanked him for his wisdom. I have been pondering his words ever sense.
We are human beings, not doings, not thinkings, not nothingness. What enables us to BE is how we relate to and care for one another. Do we care about the folks we see daily or are they just extras in the B movie that is our life?
Go forth and BE
Be you, be real, be wonderfully caring
Bertice Berry, PhD.