It Could be Worse
I’ve been
trying to avoid writing this post. I wrote the title down a few days ago when
it came to me and then I tried to not look at it.
I guess I
really don’t like comparing my present to another possibility. I feel that I can
be grateful without needing to see someone else’s woes. But the message kept
coming back to me; it could be worse.
I’ve been
hearing from loads of folks who are going through and each time, I tell them to
hold on; things will get better. I don’t ever tell someone in the midst of a
struggle, “Things could be worse, child.”
So, why do I
feel compelled to write it now? I think that for the most part, I’m talking to
myself and to those who already know this truth.
As I’m
dealing with the whole tinnitus and now balance thing I am amazed at the fact
that I am crying one moment and laughing the next. In those moments of laughter
I have reminded myself of a simple thing my sister Chris says whenever one of
our relatives complains about getting older. “You can still wash yourself.” She says, though I’m cleaning it up
just a bit.
“When you
can’t then you can complain.” The relative always laughs and then thanks Chris
and for that moment she is renewed.
We should
never ignore the body’s signals when they tell us something it wrong. We need
to get things checked out and then we need to follow up on the recommendations. You
should get your annual physicals every year on or near your birthday.
When all is well, celebrate and when
it is not, work to get better. In the mean while
know that life is just like the river; it ebbs and flows. You must learn to
live with and without. Rejoice when things are good and when they are
difficult. Life happens and whatever is happening to you right now is a lesson
for the future.
·
Rest
when you need to
·
Cry
when you need to
·
Laugh
·
Share
your heart and story with those who need it
·
Be
grateful
Remember, things can get worse and we
can make them worse with our attitude, complaints and failure to notice what
is.
Be grateful for who you
are and what you have and keep on keeping on.
Be you, be well, be NOW
Bertice Berry, PhD.
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