A Leap of Faith
A few weeks
ago, I received a text messages with pictures of my sister/friend Adri’s 9 year
old son Connor. He was standing tall in his junior lifeguard uniform. I
wondered where the little boy from previous pictures had gone. He stood proud
as he posed and stared directly into the camera with a look of no-one-will-get-hurt-on-my-beach.
Earlier this
week, I was amazed and in shock when I opened a message with a new picture of
Connor. In this picture, 9 year old Connor
was jumping off the side of a pier into the Pacific Ocean.
At first
glance, I only saw his tiny body heading straight at the water. As I looked
more closely, I could see others looking over the side of the pier down at him.
A closer look revealed that he wasn’t very far from the shore line and then I read Adri’s note telling me it was
the completion of his training as a junior lifeguard.
I realized
that until I had that context, I had been holding my breath, just as Connor
must have. I sent a message right back asking Adri if she was okay and she told
me what any mother would have expected; that she’d thought she was going to have a heart
attack.
Over the next few days, I looked at
the picture over and over again and I wondered if I had allowed my own children
to have their leap of faith and then I began to wonder if I had been taking my
own.
I thought about the phrase; “leap of faith”
and I decided to look at what was needed.
·
Training---Everyone who stood watching Connor
jump knew that he was prepared or they would not have allowed it. He had
trained for that moment. He had done the physical and mental work necessary.
·
A Belief in one’s self—Even though Adri was afraid, Connor
was not. He may have had a healthy dose of fear, but he was not afraid. There
is a subtle but powerful difference. In order to do the impossible, you must first
believe that you are the right person at the right time for the right purpose.
·
Support---Connor had the support of his
mentors, his parents, family and friends. When you take a plunge with no
support, you will drown in regret, loneliness and unfulfilled dreams. Success
in the realm of the improbable requires that you have a team of teachers,
guides and well-wishers.
·
A Purpose Goal---Connor’s goal was not selfish. It
was based in his desire to help save the lives of other young people; and that my friends is where the "Faith" comes in. When we aim high for goals centered on the
collective good, the good from on high becomes centered on us.
Today, think of your
impossible purpose-filled goals and do what I will from now on be
calling: A
Connor.
Be you, be well, be
Connor
Bertice Berry, PhD.
Go Connor |
Thanks a lot Bertice for putting that on your blog many thanks from the lynch families:-) -Connor
ReplyDeleteYou are so welcome. Thank you for the inspiration.
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