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Enough
This morning
while still in the state of I-just-woke-up-and-everything-is-possible, the word
enough came into my consciousness, so I looked it up.
There it
was; a beautiful/symmetrical definition that said what we all need to hear; sufficient for the purpose of satisfaction.
At first
glance, the definition of enough can sound like a let-down; a settlement or
compromise. It is anything but. Enough really is enough.
I looked at
the word sufficient and got the image of trying to repair something with the wrong tool.
The right tool; the sufficient tool is the one that will get the job done. Yet we
don’t jump for joy when we use a hammer to drive a nail, but if you ever try to
do it with a shoe because no hammer is available, and then someone showed up
with a hammer, you would understand the joy of being sufficient.
In the wee
hours, I was also amazed to see that we seem to know when we have had enough of
something we don’t like, but can’t turn off the switch when we have enough of
what we do. I pondered the question of satisfaction and wondered how we ever came to
think that being satisfied is not enough.
I will always strive to be better, do
more, to reach and teach; but there has
to be a point of knowing that you ARE enough.
So today’s
lesson is sweet and simple, though I feel that the impact will be great.
I’d like you
to do one of those touchy-feely things we were fond of back in the 70’s and I
want you to enjoy it. (Wow, my mother skills are amazing.)
First I’d like you to look at
yourself in a mirror and simply say “I am enough.” That’s it; nothing more or
less. Understanding that you are sufficient
for your own joy is a major accomplishment.
Secondly, I’d like you to tell
someone that they satisfy you. (Get your mind out of the gutter and get back to the work at
hand.) In other words, let that person know that they are more than good
enough, they are sufficient for the task
of being your teacher.
I hope that this lesson
leaves you knowing that it and you are enough.
Be you, be well, be at
peace.
Bertice Berry, PhD.
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