The outcome is better than what you go through |
When You’re Going
through Hell, Keep Moving
Yesterday, I
was talking to my brother from another mother, Jerry. We talked about the
stresses of life and how more and more they seem to be inevitable. That’s when
he gave me the wisdom I needed; “When you are going through hell,” he said,
“don’t stop; keep moving.”
There is a
tendency to want to give up on a goal, especially when the regular life-stuff
becomes challenging. It’s hard to do a daily routine of dancing and exercise
when your kid tells you that they need something early in the morning just
moments before. And it seems impossible to eat right when your life demands a
cookie.
Last night,
I read in the book 72 Names of God,
by Yehuda Berg that fulfillment often brings
complacency. In other words, when
things are going perfectly well, we have a tendency to forget the basics; work
hard, be grateful and share what you have and have learned.
Last year
when I broke my right hand, I learned to use the left. It was a difficult challenge;
I dropped and spilled things and marveled at how weak the hand was compared to the
right. In time, my left hand became as proficient as its broken counterpart and
I was as proud as I had been when I first learned to tie my shoes. Then the
inevitable happened; my right hand healed and I went back to using it, forgetting
all about the left.
Did I need
to break my hand to appreciate it? Do I have to have a problem with my ears to
be grateful for them? The answer of course is no, and yet I keep hearing my
mother’s words when she said. “You won’t
miss the water until the well runs dry.”
Sometimes,
life happens. It feels like hell when it does but you must keep on moving.
Today, I’d
like you to do something I used to see my mother do. It made me laugh a little
at the time, but now I see the value in it.
Walk around your home, job and even
your car. As you do, touch the things you see daily but give little attention
to. As you do, say “thank you.”
I used to
watch my mother say thank you for a chair, the stove, a window. I know now that
she was reflecting on the fact that when we were growing up, she barely had
time to sit in a chair. When she didn’t have money to pay the gas bill, the
stove would not work and if a window needed to be repaired, she had to board it
up until she could afford to have it replaced.
Don’t wait
to feel like you are going through hell to be grateful; do it now. But when
life feels harder than normal keep moving; do it with gratitude, hard work,
respect for those who have gone before you and love for those who follow.
Keep on keeping on.
Be you, be well, keep
moving.
Bertice Berry, PhD.
I am so thankful for your words and for ALL things. Keep it moving...God will get you through.
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