Social Self-Defense
Social Self-Defense Team |
The self is
social; it is a product of everything and everyone it ever comes in contact
with. So what would happen if you were more deliberate in your interactions and
contacts?
How would
intentional exposure to books, music, lessons, ideas and people shape and
manifest in the self?
This is a
question I’ve been pondering since I made the trek to Plains, Georgia to
attend Sunday school with President Jimmy Carter.
People had
come from all over the world to hear and learn from a man who had deliberately
chosen to go back to his boyhood home to ponder and develop a path towards
dignity and peace for all.
This great
man of great character is living a legacy of intentional practices for his own
life. Those practices are having an impact all over the world.
While on our
sojourn, my friends Bryn and Tim Grant and I discussed the idea of the self.
Tim, a brilliant builder and contractor commented on the billions of dollars spent
on home security systems, while very little attention was ever given to the
security of the self.
Almost
simultaneously, my friend, business developer and marketer, Bryn and I turned
to one another and said “Wow.” It was one of those long drawn out “wows,” we
often make when an idea provokes us to think outside of our rather unique mental boxes.
We spent the
rest of the day outlining a security system for the self.
I’d
love to go into all of the details, but as with any security system, some aspects
are off limits. I will however, disclose the basic information for protecting
your most prized possession; your own self.
The security
system works like most do. There are perimeters that one must breech to get to
those 21 grams of you. (In 1901, Dr. Duncan McDougal was among the first to
measure the weight of a body before and after death, finding the difference to
be 21 grams.)
The six
rings of protection provide or deny access to your personality, soul; psyche.
These rings of protection enable you to deliberately determine who and what can
get to you; both literally and figuratively.
As you
protect your self, you can develop it in a manner that aligns with your dreams,
goals and aspiration.
While self-reflection
is good and always necessary, being self-aware is not enough because the self
is social and a product of everything and everyone you ever come in contact
with.
Knowing who
you are is the beginning of truly living. Learning the “who” and “how” to live
with others is the world’s absolute best security system for living your best
you.
Stay tuned
for more…
Be you, be well, be
aware.
Bertice Berry, PhD.
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Man of Great Character, Man of Great Peace |
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