Copy Cats, Scapegoats and Other Such
Animals
Have you
ever watched a cat? They won’t do anything you want them to do. Dogs on the
other hand, will follow where you lead.
A scapegoat
is a person or animal that takes on the sins and blames of another.
So even
though I have a rather severe allergic reaction to cats; I still believe that
they have been unfairly scapegoated.
The real
point with the goats, cats and even the dogs is that we project our behavior,
power and even desires onto and through someone else.
Projection
is a psychological concept that defines the act of transferring your unpleasant
and undesirable thoughts, actions and desires onto another.
Most
copycats don’t even know that their doing it, while scapegoats may or may not
be conscious of their behavior.
I laugh (and
correct) when I hear people talk about lazy Mexican workers---you know, the
ones who toil at those jobs most of us would never even attempt.
Fat people are
believed to lack will power and yet they/we endure diet after diet and all the
name calling that goes with it.
When we copy
the behavior of someone else, we have given up on picking and choosing for our own
self and when we scapegoat we are refusing to take responsibility for our stuff.
Leave the
animals out of it and be yourself, take responsibility for yourself and enjoy
who you become.
Be you, be well, be
you.
Bertice Berry, PhD
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