Are You Afraid to Live?
“Something is always happening to you,” a former friend said years ago. She had just learned of the death of one of my children and not knowing what to say, she said that.
I smiled and looked directly into her eyes. I wanted her to feel the words that I was about to say.
“The bigger the life, the bigger the pain.” I told her, “but with much life, comes much joy also.”
This past week, I had the opportunity to speak to the women of Aspire. These women are a part of the workforce at Medtronic. The room was filled with folks who are extremely smart, beautiful and compassionate about their life and work. (Medtronic)
What they admitted out loud to themselves and to one another was the fact that we can all be more confident.
With a goal to contribute to the wellfare of humankind, these women understood that they had to be the change the world needed to see.
I began to think of my own bold life and how incredibly big it is. As I did, the words of a character from one of my novels spoke to me clearly; “If you ain’t dead, you ain’t done.”
I decided that I could live even more and be much better.
The decision to do so required three things, faith, courage and bravery.
Are you living, or are you merely existing?
Are you afraid to step out of the comfort of your comfortable life to teach what you know to someone else?
Will you be willing to love someone so much that the loss of the loved one is too much to bear?
Are you willing to read from a new play book, even at this stage of your game?
Can you appreciate all that you are becoming and tell yourself “well done?”
Be you, be well, be living.
Bertice Berry, PhD.