Who am I not to.. |
The Mis-Education of
You
In 1933,
historian and father of the study of African American History, Dr. Carter G.
Woodson, wrote The Mis-Education of the Negro.
In it, Dr. Woodson
argued that schools were not teaching African Americans; instead “negroes,” as
we were called then, were being indoctrinated to be second class citizens in
the very country they helped build.
As you might
imagine, this was incredibly radical. Dr. Woodson was the son of former slaves.
Education was highly valued in his family. His father had moved Woodson and his
siblings to West Virginia to find a school for them.
Dr. Woodson
was the second African American to earn a doctorate, and he did it at Harvard.
It goes without saying that education was important to him, but Woodson saw a
distinct difference between education and indoctrination.
At the age
of 12, my mother had to drop out of school. At 12 she also learned that her
grandparents were not her real parents that her mother, a woman she believed to
have been “some white friend of the family,” had come to take her away from the
people who had loved and raised her. (My grandmother Caroline was not white,
but could and is believed to have often “passed” as white.)
My grandmother
Caroline sent my mother to work and so her formal education ended. Still, my
mother yearned to learn and “know things about things,” as she put it.
She was an
avid reader and when she came across Dr. Woodson’s treaty on mis-education, it
became a guide for her education and a source for the correction of me and my siblings.
“You are just building the back door,”
my mother would often chide whenever any of her children did something that she believed
was against our own self-interest.
As a child,
I had no idea what she was talking about, but years later when I read The
Mis-Education of The Negro for myself, I came to see her full intent.
"When you control a man's
thinking you do not have to worry about his actions. You do not have to tell
him not to stand here or go yonder. He will find his 'proper place' and will
stay in it. You do not need to send him to the back door. He will go without
being told. In fact, if there is no back door, he will cut one for his special
benefit. His education makes it necessary."
Dr. Woodson’s treaty can and must be applied to all God’s
children because we are all being mis-educated about our own selves.
We are allowing others to tell us who we are and who we
can be. We have been limited in our own thinking and our own story.
We have been telling ourselves that we are not capable
and we are not powerful.
We have come to believe that we have no say in any matter
and nothing can or will ever change.
The story we have been telling is not true, but we have
come to believe in the validity of it because Santa Clause, the Care Bears and Wall Street told
us so.
“Our
deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are
powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens
us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is
nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure
around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make
manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's
in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other
people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our
presence automatically liberates others.” Marianne Williamson~ A
Return To Love
Be you, be bold, be knowing
Bertice Berry, PhD.
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